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These 3 Network Marketing Misconceptions Will Make You Smack Yourself

This here is “Skeptical Snake”.

Geez, after a while it just feels like you’re doing way too much effort for not a lot of results don’t it?

I’m sure you’ve had that anxious feeling like we have….

Like things “Just Ain’t Right” with your business and people aren’t joining like you thought, and your team should be growing WAY faster?

Well I’m not gonna say that what you’ve learned so far isn’t working, but hear me out on this…

I’m also not like these “gurus” out there all saying you “shouldn’t listen to your up-line“, because you should…

However, in this mind-bender we’re going to reveal 3 huge conceptual mistakes (along with 3 huge paradigm shifts), and it may just completely go against the concepts you’ve been taught… (and maybe even make you want to smack yourself!)

We believe leaders get these concepts almost completely backwards and it causes most distributors big-time unnecessary frustration and failure:

Here they are:

  1. It Ain’t About Selling, Prospecting, Recruiting or “Reaching Out”
  2. You Don’t Have To Be “Social”

  3. It Ain’t About Your Great Company, Product or Comp Plan, (or even your “top of the comp plan up-line who makes 7-Figures”

And you’re probably like, “Whoa Whoa Whoa.. hold up.. that doesn’t sound right”!!!!

I know this may sound uncomfortable at first, but let me explain, stick with me here…

When you go fishing:
Do you jump out there in the water, stomping around “chasing” the fish, (like most people do on Social Media)?

When you go on a first date:
Do you right away ask her for a COMMITMENT, (like most people do when inviting, prospecting and recruiting)?

Hell NO you don’t…

If you’re going fishing, hopefully you’ve asked someone with experience, who knows WHERE the (right) fish are hanging out. The fishing pro has specialized knowledge, so they also know what those fish find IRRESISTIBLE!

It is crucial that you’re working in the right areas and you have the right lures that attract the right fish so you actually have the best chance of “landing” what you’re looking for, right?

Ok, so let’s get to it:

 1. It Ain’t About Prospecting, Recruiting Or Even “Reaching Out”

Yep, this goes against everything most people have heard, but we have built a team of THOUSANDS in under a year without reaching out, chasing, convincing them off the fence or “recruiting” ANYONE.

Instead, we were able to stop the scrolling, address their pain, create curiosity, reveal the solution, and ATTRACT them into their own results and vision of what they wanted – – – the results THEY were ALREADY looking for. 

And you can get them to come to YOU too, but now it’s for their reasons – (not yours!)


By knowing that it’s not about what you think is a good idea or what you want them to buy or join.

It’s about their reasons, and WHY they want those results.

People Buy The Feeling Of The RESULT

And truly, on the deepest level, people don’t initially make logical decisions. They make emotional decisions.

So if you really want to write a Facebook post that converts people into buyers…

Then you must tell a story and talk about the feeling they’re going to get when they get the results of the product they bought!

And the same thing also goes for enrolling people into your business. They don’t want to “join” or commit to anything or anyone that’s new or unfamiliar, especially if they don’t know, like and trust them.

However, when you learn to create quality content that gets them to step forward and finally realize how good it will feel to achieve the goals they’re really looking for…  then you offer them your help to get those results, they practically enroll themselves with YOU, before they even fully know what it is!

Why Do People Join Clubs, Organizations And Even Gangs?

Because they also want the feeling of being a part of something bigger than themselves. They want to feel “safe”, with a culture and community they identify with.

A movement. Belonging!

But hold on…

2. You Don’t Have TIME To Be “Social”

LOL, now hear me out on this one too…

I mean yes, at first, I was on Facebook to be “social”, as a “freebie” consumer of Facebook, connecting with friends and family, however…

If you treat your business like a hobby, it’s going to PAY you like a hobby.

So if you’re a serious business owner, you’re not there to beat around the bush and be “fake social”, trying to convince skeptics, one-by-one all day. You’re there to produce RESULTS and be paid DAILY.

And most people think being social is being productive, (and it can be), but is it really producing tons of VOLUME that you’ll be paid on?

Now I’m not sure about you, but when a Network Marketer tries to “beat around the bush” with me, messaging me with all the fake social copy and pastes or small talk, I can immediately recognize what they’re up to… and so can everyone else.

I personally would rather be told up front, so this is a language track that will save you tons of time, so you can sift and sort through WAY MORE NUMBERS:

“Hey, I know we definitely need to catch up and stuff, but today I’m contacting you about BUSINESS!” 

Or have you ever gotten that spammy copy & paste message, but then if you don’t buy whatever they’re pushing, they NEVER talk to you again and completely ghost you?

Like honestly, people are pretty careless these days, aren’t they?! It’s a dead giveaway. They didn’t care about me AT ALL. They just wanted to sell me something or “get” me into their business, lol!

People Aren’t Stupid – We Can Tell

Your prospect’s sales radar is on “extremely sensitive” mode. However, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being transparent and offering people the results their looking for… PLUS, they respect the transparency!


Only IF you offer it to them in the right way…

And so there’s a thing called copywriting.

It’s sales copy (writing) and “marketing”. It takes education and SKILL… and it makes people take action on what they want!

So, yes, it’s social media, but you should no longer think of it as your personal (social) profile, hanging out being a simple “freebie” consumer.

You’re now on the business side, so you should push to be professional, attractive and VERY INTENTIONAL!

I recommend looking at it like it’s your “HBO Channel”, “HISTORY CHANNEL” or “Education channel”.

And after you’re proficient with your personal profile, (if you’re thinking long term for branding yourself, so you can target and attract high-caliber entrepreneurs), I would also think about getting a Business/Fan page, because you’re a business now.

So after you have some experience and traction, with a solid foundation under your belt, you can also use Facebook ads from a business page to have better customers and prospects coming to YOU…

This means you can have Facebook sifting, sorting and working FOR you, (getting your information in front of (the RIGHT) people who are (already) LOOKING for what you have to offer)

In fact, Facebook loves you more if you’re paying them, so they actually give the businesses with business pages a TON of extra advantages that the normal “freebie Facebook customers” do not get…. #laser #targeting!

And last extremely important paradigm shift…

Here’s a story that explains more. Then #3 below this clip may bring it all the way home:

3. It Ain’t About Your Great Company, Ground Floor Opportunity, Product or Comp Plan, (or even your “top of the comp plan up-line who makes 7-Figures”

Now I’m not bashing at all, (because everyone else loses their senses when they get excited too), but after we really learned the game and realized we were wasting valuable time, I made “the shift”

Pretty much every other day I get a message from an excited Networker talking about all that “stuff” that they’re excited about.

And again last week I was approached by a friend…

I didn’t want to waste their time jumping on a 3-way call, so I tried to tell them…. but they kept insisting I get on the phone, (and I wanted to show my respect), so I reluctantly said “ok”…

Wow, did I get an ear full from their “million dollar earner up-line” :

Have you heard any of this language? (It’s your cue to run the other way!)

  • “We’re the fastest growing and we’re gonna be the next Billion Dollar company!”
  • “We’re stable and debt-free!”
  • “It’s a Ground Floor opportunity, and timing is EVERYTHING”
  • “This product changes lives!”
  • “I’m serious, the product literally sells itself!”
  • “I want to introduce you to my mentor who’s a 7-figure earner!”
  • “We’ve already made 397 millionaires!”

I could go on for days, but you get my drift, lol!

It’s Like Trying To Catch A Fish With A Bat

They weren’t doing it right!

Yes, they said it’s Network “Marketing”, but there was not actual marketing.

They told you to get out there and promote and push your products and “opportunity” but it’s not even their fault, because they haven’t been educated or mentored for today’s cutting edge social media marketing.

So here’s the deal:

Different people all want different things, and it’s definitely not your company, products or comp plan. They want what THEY want, NOT what YOU like!

So we scare them off with all that “stuff” that we like, lol!

It’s like you’re speaking Chinese and they’re Spanish – you’re simply not speaking their language! (aka, they ain’t smellin’ what your cookin’!)

But guess what?

There’s HOPE! lol

Now – (depending on what THEY like) – they’re going to be “liking” and hanging out on different Facebook pages…. things that they’re already interested in.

So wouldn’t it be easier to have clarity on EXACTLY what type of fish you love to catch, which will give you clarity on exactly what those fish LOVE to eat?

And should you invest the time to discover where all the best fishing holes are?

And couldn’t you simply ATTRACT them with the exactly right BAIT, according to what their interests are, so you’re speaking their language and they all come to YOU to get what they want?

And THIS is how we’ve added 3700 distributors to our team in under 15 months , without chasing or bugging un-interested skeptical friends on Facebook!

And if you’re like we were… (just completely DONE with reaching out with cold messages, being told “no thanks”,  “not interested” and getting totally ignored and avoided), we have an absolutely paradigm-shifting “Magnetic Sponsoring” book that will change your business forever… and it’s available FOR FREE….

CLICK HERE NOW to grab it, because we’re not sure how long this will be available… enjoy!


Happy attracting!

The World Is Yours, Marco and Mari : )


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(Last Updated On: October 15, 2019)

About the Author Marco Frank Montoya

Marc Frank Montoya was a world-class international professional snowboarder for over 16 years. Living an extraordinary lifestyle, he could not go back to a "the norm" and was psychologically un-employable. Launching businesses, he quickly realized the stress, responsibility, lack of freedom, less travel, and most painful of all, less quality time with his kids. Searching for solutions and investing into personal and financial development, he found Home Business. "Done wrong, it's a nightmare. Done RIGHT it's a DREAM". Marco now helps entrepreneurs brand themselves and market their business online, from anywhere in the world.

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