#1 Cure For The Up & Down (Emotional Rollercoaster) In Your Home Business - Never A Case of The Mondays
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#1 Cure For The Up & Down (Emotional Rollercoaster) In Your Home Business

Ok riddle me this:

What is the difference between a Network (“Marketers”) Emotional Rollercoaster and a Disney World Rollercoaster?

Well, in the pic here, we earned a Success Trip with our company, and we are on the DisneyWorld rollercoaster…

OR, there’s…. 

The Emotional Rollercoaster Within Your Home Business

Let’s talk about it…

One of the most frustrating things about being an excited Home Business entrepreneur is the EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER you’re stuck on. 

Did you think everyone was going to flood into your business in these COVID times because they got SENT HOME and lost their income…?

But then realize that they’re still all “skeptical” and totally avoid being “recruited into one of those things“? lol

How about when Susan said she was interested, and then ghosted in the very same week! 

What about when you’re most motivated distributor claimed they were gonna go to the top and then fizzled out and quit 3 weeks later?! 

The ups & downs are insane hey?

Enough was enough…

We had to figure out how to NOT take that ride and  STOP being ATTACHED to whether people say “yes” or “no“…

….and whether they quit or not. 

“Ok so how do you do that?”, you ask?

Here it is:

Get attached to getting your information in front of ridiculous amounts of people who are ALREADY INTERESTED in what you have to offer.

We learned a long time ago – the best way to NOT be emotionally attached to whether they say “yes” or “no” is:

Don’t Try To Control Things You Can’t Control


Can you control whether people say “yes” or “no”?

No, you can’t.

Can you control if they quit or not?

No, you can’t.

So don’t ever try to control things you can’t control, or you’ll be unhappy and stuck on that Emotional Rollercoaster. 

So what CAN you control? 

You can control getting your information in front of insane numbers of the right interested and qualified people)!

So first…

If you ever want your business to keep moving forward, nice and steady, then you must understand what keeps you and your business stuck…

Have you wondered why people (even your close friends) avoid the subject (or anything that has to do with) your “opportunity” or what you have to offer?

It’s because there’s a ton of subconscious “resistance” in most people. 

The good thing is, it’s not your fault. 

First Things First

The key to getting any kind of initial “traction” or real forward momentum in your business is to first get rid of all the “friction“.

Excuses, skepticism, limiting beliefs, objections, lack of information, lack of training, bad mindset, uneducated decisions, whining, etc., are ALL forms of of friction, (aka, RESISTANCE). 

So give me a “Hell to the Yeah!” if you’re absolutely sick and tired of getting excited, but then hearing all the whiny excuses, stories and all the other friction when you’re trying to build your network marketing business:

“It sounds great, but I just don’t have enough money to get started.”

“I don’t have enough time.”

“Is this some pyramid scheme?”

“I can’t sell.”

“I don’t want to give you my social security or credit card info.”

“I’m not a people person.”

“This just isn’t my thing.”

“But what about this other company that sells the same stuff cheaper?”

“I’ll have to ask my wife/husband before I join.”

“I’ll need to pray about it.”

“Let me think about it and I’ll call you next week.”

“How much does it cost to join?”

“Do I have to buy product every month!?”

“I don’t like to recruit people.”

Should I go on?

Seriously, stab me in the ear with a frickin’ ice pick! lol

So I have a question for you:

How do you react when these statements are made?

Have you always looked for the solutions, like books and courses on answering objections so you can turn the situation around?

Have you attended conference calls or workshops on how your sponsor masterfully counters each excuse?

If you have, that’s great. I respect your work ethic and commitment.

But I want to tell you the absolute #winning secret…

Naw you ain’t ready… ! LOL

No, ok ok …


You Don’t Ever….  EVER … Have to Deal With ANY Of That Crap!


I don’t really ever have to deal with excuses, whiny questions, objections or stories like the ones above anymore.

And when I discovered how to get my information in front of millions of open-minded and highly qualified (INTERESTED) people, my business absolutely exploded…

And now, if you’re like me, you’re like, “Yeah sure, ok, so HOW then?”

How do we get away with such ‘sacrilegious’ behavior?

It’s easier (and more efficient) than you could have ever imagined:

I only build communities (and market to) people who are already looking, (CLICK HERE) to earn extra income, early retirement and/or build assets for wealth.

This means I only talk to people who are open, interested, and (already) motivated to go after it… with no resistance.

Entrepreneurs and savvy business minds who understand what “cost” vs “investment” is and why it’s so important.

In short, you never have to put up with excuses when you ONLY deal with hitters who are NOT looking to make them.

However, this idea is not something that’s new to the industry.

That being said, there’s a RIGHT way to do this… and there’s a WRONG way…

We were at a big workshop event recently with many top earners, successful leaders and thousands of reps in various companies and industries.

Certain events should have a ‘No Recruiting Atmosphere,’ but wow… at the bar in between the sessions… it really felt like a shark frenzy!  

It was bad.

And whether it’s at a restaurant, prospecting on the street or on Facebook or messenger, reps kinda look at their prospects like this dog wanting to gobble up the cake!

And your prospects basically FEEL like THE CAKE, lol! 

I on the other hand didn’t have that desperate anxious feeling, where I felt I had to try and recruit every single person, because I don’t have to.

Yet, I was asked by a many high earners who knew me from the Internet and wanted to pick my brain and had a genuine interest in my solutions.

It was a super fun trip and we made a ton of new networking friends. 🙂

It is true what they say… “You must recruit UP”!

The Fastest and Easiest Way to Build a Business is to Recruit Other Powerful Leaders, But…

… mostly likely FAR from what you’re thinking!

I think most of the old-school network marketers get it all wrong with HOW to actually find and recruit leaders…

This is mostly because they are applying old-school ineffective inviting tactics to people who don’t want to be bothered and already know what you are trying to pull.

They have a highly sensitive “radar” for it and can smell you coming a mile away, lol!  

There’s only a few who are actually doing it right.

Have you noticed some of the recent Facebook Ads, from some bigger networkers?

Leaders are quickly catching on and the faster YOU do, the faster you’ll get the same results.

Personally, we were DONE:

  • Cold prospecting strangers or friends or anyone else.
  • Wasting hours being “fake social” on Social Media just to find out they’re “not interested”.
  • Making 100 calls 10 years ago. 
  • Driving to hotel meetings, demos or holding home meetings.
  • Constantly on my phone in messenger debating and trying to convince employees (who actually HATE their job but think they’re “too cool” for “MLM”!) LOL 
  • And don’t even get me started on the royal waste of time 1-on-1s with skeptical tire-kickers at Starbucks can be…

I finally STOPPED being a simple (rep) and discovered how to be a Branded Professional so I don’t have to “chase” people or worry about being AVOIDED anymore!

Back in 2011, when I totally burned out on the old recruiting methods, I started researching.

I knew there had to be a smarter more efficient way to build assets for wealth that could save me time…

And We Found It

It’s called Attraction Marketing and you may think you’ve heard of it, but NOT like I’m about to reveal to you…

This way is about learning how to use Social Media, Marketing and Branding in way that literally brings your customers, prospects, and other leaders TO YOU, without having to be a skilled closer or prospector.

I NEVER even plan on enrolling anyone from any of the events, yet it happens.


Because they already feel like they know us from seeing  our online strategies and experience extreme value in the way we run our business.


How would you FEEL to watch your business change, having people contact YOU, asking for more information every single day, and generating multiple streams of income on top of your own Network Marketing business?

And these aren’t just ‘any‘ types of people.

These are active savvy entrepreneurs, professionals and yes, even full on networkers…calling YOU. 

Would that completely shift your paradigm on how much momentum (and FUN) you can have in your business?

Your image and your higher quality lifestyle?

Would your enthusiasm and belief in this beautiful business model skyrocket?

Would that put another SPARK back into you, (that you had when you first started?) 

It’s actually pretty damn simple…

It’s just that either no one has bothered to show you how to do it yet, or you’ve been ‘closed’ to new ideas because you’re a loyal person.

I get it. We try to be coachable and listen to our up-line, willing to do whatever they tell us to do, even if it’s humiliating.

We don’t want take the “loss” or cut our losses, or be quitters.

And since I’m really direct, (because I’ve been there too), I’ll say it… 

It’s almost like gambling addicts, trying to get your money back once you lost it….


We try to stick the “the system”, “hit more numbers”, keep your head down and “keep working”, etc. but it’s not working. 

And so I have to tell you:

I don’t want to recruit you.

And yes, some of this may ruffle feathers a tiny bit, but hopefully enough to cause some course correction and help you finally get bigger better results.

This isn’t about being “disloyal” to your up-line, your company or anything else.

It’s about doing whatever it takes to MAKE IT and make it look GOOD! 

You can free yourself from the smoke & mirror objections, weak excuses, and the whiny people who make them – permanently.

For goodness sake, stop wasting your time and your money on these dead-beat whiners!

Stop cold messaging people to pitch your business.

Think now, do you believe millionaires and billionaires sit in their offices all day, calling a list of 20,000 potential customers, one by one?!

Of course not.

It’s time to learn the (not so) SECRET.

It’s time to MARKET….

So you ONLY work with other professionals already GET IT, who are positive about what you are involved in.

Building your (social) network marketing business is just like in any business.

Marketing 101:
Market your offer to those who are already using a similar product or already interested in similar things.

Mari on stage

This is how successful networkers really build their businesses in this arena, especially now in the 21st century. 

If you want results like theirs, I recommend you have the same strategies.

If you’re not sure how to go about it, you should consider enrolling in our 100% FREE “Social Ninja Recruiting Video Series, because it’s exactly what I learned and what we’ll teach you how to do.

You’ll attract qualified prospects to you without having to bother good people with bad awkward cold texts in messenger!


We’ve ALL Been Here At The Crossroad

Before we had our success, MY excuse was “man, I don’t think I have time to learn all of the online strategy stuff”…

And this lame excuse prolonged my struggle for 3 more years, unnecessarily.

Only after I finally surrendered to learning what I had to learn, (so I could get the results I wanted), I was pissed at myself for not doing it sooner! 

It was way simpler than I had imagined, and everything came together immediately, like magic puzzle pieces.

It turned into a total Home Business masterpiece.

Regardless of which path you choose, I hope you give it 1000% and I do wish you many blessings!

Still though… Click play HERE and Enjoy! You’re gonna die laughing

The World Is Yours, M.


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(Last Updated On: September 12, 2022)

About the Author Marco Frank Montoya

I was an inner-city kid who changed his environment and grew to become a world-class international professional snowboarder for over 17 years... I didn't know what I did when I did it, but now I DO. I learned a lot from that and lived an extraordinary lifestyle, so as you can imagine, I could not go back to a "the norm". I was "psychologically un-employable"... Through years of launching, building and promoting several businesses, I quickly realized that the more "successful" we became, the more BUSY we got, (and the less TIME freedom I had). The lack of freedom and quality time with my kids had me searching for solutions and investing into personal development and financial education. Then I searched out and found the most beautifully powerful business models and mentors in the world and they changed my life forever. So grateful. I've done this now for over a 15 years, and absolutely LOVE to pay it forward. I now coach and guide entrepreneurs on how to brand yourself, market your businesses online for multiple streams of income (from anywhere in the world), and protect the assets you've built, so you can be a #FreedomFam too! : )

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