Why Is It Taking So Long To Get To The “Next Level” In Your Life? These 10 language patterns may be the reason!
1. I’m broke/don’t have the money:
Money is a game, a mindset. It is not that you have money. It is more about what you DO with the money once you get it. Do you waste it on liabilities? If you don’t start investing time and money into yourself, you’ll never understand how money works, and you’ll never win the GAME.
Example: If you don’t even know the rules to the game of football, what are you chances of ever winning a game?
If you don’t break that language pattern of saying “I don’t have the money”, then we we come back next year, and the year after that, and you’ll still be saying the same thing.
SOLUTION: FIND the money with W.I.T.! (Whatever It Takes). Budget, save, and sacrifice to come up with the money you’ll need to take action and START on your dream. Now, when would be a good time to change that situation of having no money?
2. I’m too busy/don’t have any time:
If you don’t break/interrupt this pattern immediately, we will come back to you next year, and you will still be saying the same thing and “not have any time”. This will be a pattern for the rest of your life.
I am sure your ultimate goal is to get UN-busy, as fast as possible, so why keep waiting until “tomorrow” or “later”? There are two types of people in this world: The procrastinators who wait around for the “right time” that never comes, and the successful people that know The Power of NOW.
3. They’re probably not interested:
Don’t make up stories in your head. Don’t try to be God. Don’t try making people’s decisions for them. Who do you think you are? This is unfair to them. When you project your thoughts onto others, your fear becomes your reality, and if you never even ask, you have ensured that the answer is NO. If you’re not committed and don’t believe in yourself or your product/service, who is going to believe in you? People only follow committed leaders.
4. I’ll “try”:
DO or DO NOT. There is no “try”! Think about it. With your job, do you “try” to go to work every day? Do you “try” to feed your kids? No. You just DO it. You just find a way, no matter what, if you have a strong enough reason. Most failures are those who “try things out for a while”. It is also called dabbling. Dabblers choose not to invest enough time to gain the specialized skills one would need to be successful.
5. I don’t want:
Focusing on what you DON’T want will make your life worse every day. So every day will then be “the worst day of your life”! lol!
Because of the power of your subconscious, whatever you focus on, you bring MORE of. If you observe road rage, they always seem to find the worst drivers in the world, and attract more of them, so they are constantly full of rage! The same thing goes for anything negative. If you focus on the negative, you’ll always find more of it!
In fact, the mind doesn’t actually recognize a negative. For example, if I say, “don’t think about a pink elephant right now”, you have already pictured and pink elephant in your mind. Try it: Don’t think of your feet in the warm sand on the beach in Mexico right now! See!
Remember: The quality of your life is directly proportionate to the meaning you give to what happens to you and what you focus on.
6. Why does everything go wrong? : Your subconscious (ego) always wants you to be right, and will answer any question you give to it. So if you say, “geez why am I so broke”, your subconscious will go back through the library of answers, to give you many reasons why YOU ARE RIGHT. It will answer, “because you don’t have the intelligence, and you don’t have the resources, and you don’t know anyone, and … and.. and so on..
This is why the “Whether you think you can, or you think y0u can’t – EITHER WAY YOU ARE RIGHT!”
Which brings us to:
7. I “can’t”: Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, either way you’re right. You thoughts lead to you beliefs, that lead to your actions, that lead to your results, that lead to even more belief, that leads to even more action! The opposite can also happen, where the wrong thoughts will lead to your LACK of belief, that will lead to your lack of action, that will lead to your lack of results, which will stomp all over your thoughts! A downward spiral if you don’t wake up and understand that your external and internal language patterns will either cause success or huge failure!
8. I’ll do that later: There is no “tomorrow”. Yesterday you said “tomorrow too”. For those that think there is a “tomorrow”, tomorrow never comes. There are two types of people: Those who say “NOW” are successful. Those who procrastinate are the ones who say “I’ll do it later”, and “later” or “tomorrow” never comes, because it is a deadly PATTERN.
9. “I” and “Me” thinking:
Poor people think day-to-day:
Their language pattern is “how am I going to survive today?”. It’s always “me me me”, not thinking about how to help OTHERS.
Middle-Class struggling people think month-to-month:
Their language pattern is still “how am I going to pay my bills this month?”, not thinking of helping to serve OTHERS.
The Rich think year-to-year:
Their language would be something like, “what do people need?” and they come up with the solution, focused on helping other. They think year-to-year, and have a plan in place.
The Wealthy think decade-to-decade:
Their thinking is, “Where are the biggest problems in the world going to be, and I’m going to learn about it and be a part of the solution.”
The more people you help in the world, the more money you make. They know their purpose, and they are DO-ERS, with delayed gratification.
10. “He/She should have… “:
The Blame Game is a killer of success. We would all love to blame ANYTHING ELSE beside ourselves for where we are in our life, but the harsh truth is that every decision we have ever made in our life, has led us to where we are right now. So if you’re not where you want to be, it would probably be a good idea to start making different/better decisions moving forward. You can not change people, you can only change yourself. You can take responsibility. (The ability to respond) to what happens to you! Stop blaming other things and other people. OWN your life. Get it done. Find a way, and do WHATEVER IT TAKES!
I hope this was helpful! To learn more or get to the next level, contact us. We’d love to hear your story!
The world is yours, M!
I was an inner-city kid who changed his environment and grew to become a world-class international professional snowboarder for over 17 years... I didn't know what I did when I did it, but now I DO. I learned a lot from that and lived an extraordinary lifestyle, so as you can imagine, I could not go back to a "the norm". I was "psychologically un-employable"... Through years of launching, building and promoting several businesses, I quickly realized that the more "successful" we became, the more BUSY we got, (and the less TIME freedom I had). The lack of freedom and quality time with my kids had me searching for solutions and investing into personal development and financial education. Then I searched out and found the most beautifully powerful business models and mentors in the world and they changed my life forever. So grateful. I've done this now for over a 15 years, and absolutely LOVE to pay it forward. I now coach and guide entrepreneurs on how to brand yourself, market your businesses online for multiple streams of income (from anywhere in the world), and protect the assets you've built, so you can be a #FreedomFam too! : )