I remember mine… (and this lesson ties directly into how you may NOT be building your Home Business!)
And yeah I thought I was all Mr. Baddass, however, secretly I was a wussy and wouldn’t ‘get after her’…
I would not put myself any where near rejection from any of the cute girls I wanted, and I didn’t really even know what attracted them…
And what happened? My worst fear became my reality…
Duh… Of COURSE the answer is always “no” if you avoid rejection or never even take the risk or build up enough courage to go after what you want in life!
The worst part is, later I found out that the answer would have actually been “YES”, (which was even more painful to know, because I “shoulda coulda woulda!” lol!)
So then, a decade ago, I find myself in Network Marketing…
But this time I was gonna be absolutely sure that I didn’t have any painful regrets.
And what about you? Are you gonna do ALL that YOU can do to ensure your success too? If so, keep reading to the end, because a “shift” may just happen for you, like it did us…
How else are you gonna make sure to get your life-changing offer in front of ALL of your best powerhouses and #bossbabes without being avoided, rejected or getting to be known as “annoy boy“?
Well if you’re ready, I’m pretty damn excited to reveal how I did it, and how you can attract and recruit the women you desire in your business too…
I’m gonna load this post with nuggets that could change everything for you like it did for us…
So listen… Here’s the important part…
“You Won’t Find Any GOOD Girls If You’re Hangin’ Out At The Bars!”
She was right…
And traditional Network Marketing reminds me of when I was twenty-something, running around thinking I’m Mr. Vegas, “looking for love (in all the wrong places)”, prospecting lower-end prospects at the bar…
In the locations/environments where I was prospecting, there were only “lower caliber” prospects. (Not the best qualified people at the greatest level, if you know what I mean!)
So when we first fell into Network Marketing, same thing…
We found ourselves prospecting in the wrong environment:
Instead of marketing to those who are already interested in the results we offer, they told me, “Go hunt down your un-interested, low-caliber, unqualified Facebook friends and family members”, LOL!
So naturally, we went into massive action and ran out of good contacts and qualified leads pretty damn quick!
So when you hit the wall and run out of high caliber people to talk to, what do you do next?
Have you been told to “keep posting” and private message more people on Facebook, one by one?
Doesn’t it make you feel a little weird, like you only want to be friends because you have that hidden agenda?
Now I’m not saying it doesn’t actually work, (if you’re masterful with the approach), but if you’re an untrained distributor or a newbie, you kinda feel like you’re being “fake social”, don’t you?
And you definitely don’t wanna be labeled as “that guy” on Facebook to avoid, do you?
And still, every day we still see distributors automatically repelling 99% of their network with “that” wrong approach…
“Do you keep your business options open?” and “Wanna make some extra income? You should join my team, you would do so good”, etc…
I mean honestly, could you see yourself saying “Lose weight, ask me how!” in person or at the bar?! LOL!
We get hit up every week with lazy Network Marketer’s copy & paste messages that gives them away immediately.
I can tell (instantly) that they don’t really care about me – they’re just looking for anyone…
It’s kinda like someone asking you to marry them on the first date without even thinking to qualifying you or caring enough to build a relationship.
Just yesterday (again) I saw a blatant sales post and totally felt sad for her…
There wasn’t one “like” or comment on her post, and I could’ve swore I even hear crickets and saw a tumbleweed flying across her page, LOL!
Anyway… let’s just get into the “how”, shall we?
Here are 3 extremely valuable nuggets that will immediately help you pull the hardest hitting women into your team, so you can finally get unstuck and in momentum…
Yes, you may think you already have an audience or an existing network of people, but think about it…
Are they really open, interested or even qualified? Do they believe in real “opportunity”?
Now, on the other hand, think about why online dating sites work out so well for people:
Your initial/existing Facebook network (audience) would be like the opposite of an online dating site….
Like if you invited yourself to a newly wed (couple’s only) retreat looking for a date…
It’s the wrong environment, so your chances are not good there!
The reality is, 95% of your initial Facebook network of friends are a bunch of un-interested people who think they are NOT very open and most definitely not actively searching for what you have to offer…
However, if you’re looking for a date on an actual dating site, (in a more inviting environment where people are already open, interested, and actively looking for a date), your odds of finding a fitting prospect to date would be way higher, wouldn’t they?
So if you intentionally build a better environment – (a higher caliber audience who are already looking to be successful or retire earlier) – your recruiting will skyrocket.
Here’s what you want to gain clarity on:
Well, as a positive-minded business owner that wants to retire early and achieve Financial Freedom so I can travel the world, I’m “liking” certain pages and hanging out in certain groups on Facebook…
So as one example:
Do some searches in the Facebook search bar:
*(You can even search exact hashtags) and endless suggestions come up.
And guess who’s hanging out there? Millions of people with the same interests, who are liking, commenting, sharing and engaging with all the posts on those specific pages and in those groups….
So you can engage with them and even friend them, because they are all the way interested in all the right things (that I’m offering!)
So that’s one strategy you can implement RIGHT NOW:
Get on those pages and in the groups and friend requested approx. 10 per day, (after a quick “scan” of their profile of course!)…
And after just one year, with only 2-5 of those 10 accepting your friend request daily, you would have over 1,500 positive friends in your network who are already interested in success, early retirement, financial freedom, etc.!
Now, what do I mean here?
I mean STOP CHASING THE FISH AWAY and learn how to use the right BAIT instead!
And don’t worry – if you can explain their problems even better than they can, they’ll almost automatically know you have a solution, and that comes naturally!
Let’s think about fishing:
Here’s a quick video on it, and I’ll explain more below…
This is crucial:
You MUST NOT have any “needy” or desperate energy:
You know when you go to a friend’s house, and there’s the annoying, over-excited DOG, jumping on you, licking your face, forever trying to get you to play with his wet slobbery tennis ball and rubbing it’s shedding fur all over your brand new jeans?
DON’T BE THE DOG!
Now on the other hand, the cat stays a few feet away at a distance and flirts from afar, meowing, playing it cool, and you’ll notice that you’re just not content until it finally ALLOWS you to pet it, and you’re practically begging to get it’s attention!
So instead of being the annoying DOG…
….. Be the COOL CAT!
Well, one way to step into that space is to have way too many people to talk to – (leads) – so that it “turns the tables” and people realize that they’re lucky if they even get some of your time!
If you’re honestly busy because you’re taking massive action, (reaching out and engaging with plenty of people, every day), then you quickly learn to recognize who is worth your time, and you can actually be picky of who gets your time!
So here’s the catch:
Unlike they told you, it’s not about your company, your product, your comp plan, or anything “outside” of yourself that will attract powerhouse women into your business.
It’s about YOU becoming VALUABLE to other people, and we all instinctively know this deep down inside, so it’s not even a conscious decision people make. They’ll want to join you!
So if you can recognize what I’m doing right this second… (giving out VALUE)… then you’ll see why we attract so many people who come to US and want to join us, NO MATTER WHAT WE ARE DOING!
And now the WHAMMY:
When you learn how to become ultra valuable, hooking them with killer content, you’ll have them coming to YOU, rejection-free, begging to join…
Hurry and snatch up our (free) Social Ninja Marketing Training Series (and some other bonus whammies) waiting for you RIGHT HERE!
And please, we want to hear about your results, so please give us a shout below and throw us some likes and comments on our Facebook page!
We’d love to hear feedback and how this helped you advance in your business, and if you have any questions or want a free consult, you can just click here to chat instantly…
Much Love and Blessings,
The World Is Yours,
Marco and Mari!
Marc Frank Montoya was a world-class international professional snowboarder for over 16 years. Living an extraordinary lifestyle, he could not go back to a "the norm" and was psychologically un-employable. Launching businesses, he quickly realized the stress, responsibility, lack of freedom, less travel, and most painful of all, less quality time with his kids. Searching for solutions and investing into personal and financial development, he found Home Business. "Done wrong, it's a nightmare. Done RIGHT it's a DREAM". Marco now helps entrepreneurs brand themselves and market their business online, from anywhere in the world.
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